Would You Like To Meet Gals?
Men question me about " finding a girlfriend " and "how to pick up women " and other such topics incessantly .
But the truth of the matter for all of these sort of questions is there is no "dating guru" that can give you any better information than good old "experience".
But by now you are saying "but how do I get experience when I don't know where to go or how to approach women?"
You meet women, approach women, and observe women any way you can for as long as it takes to get comfortable with the subject. Then when you are comfortable you date women, date women, date women. It is called serial dating.
And when I authored my first book, "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year", some people thought I was nuts.
First and foremost, let me explain that I am very big on monogamy and have never cheated on a wife or girlfriend, but when I am between important relationships I am equally big on multiple or serial dating.
And I am not talking about people who multiple or serial date their entire lives. Obviously those people have some major relationship problems.
But, serial dating applied inside the right context is not only not dysfunctional, but it is quite the reverse. Serial dating done to get a better awareness of the opposite sex, so you can figure out who you are fond of, and what you like, and what kinds of people like you, is about the most mentally healthy thing you can do.
What do you think most parents told their adolescent sons and daughters?
"Don't get too serious with one person. You need to meet and date different people.
Now believe it or not, this teenage advice can also be very good advice for adults.
Most of us adults never really followed good old mom and dad's advice. We alternatively met someone we kind of liked and hooked up with them and ignored the rest.
Sort of like, we got together with the first acceptable person who showed some real interest in us.
Regrettably, there is a difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also the fact is that most people ordinarily continue this pattern of hooking up with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into adulthood.
We call this "settling".
We call this "compromising".
We call this all sorts of names years later when we realize we aren't happy.
You see there are many different sorts of people in the world and, believe it or not, there is someone for everyone. But the problem is you may have to meet a heck of a lot of people to find that one someone.
Another problem is that many people are so confused about life and relationships and people, they don't really have any idea of what kind of personality is a good match for them. They base their ideals off of the Hollywood imagery of what they think they want.
The cure is uncomplicated. When you date and meet lots of people, sooner or later, you figure it out for yourself. It's a natural process. You get comfortable with people, you realize that everyone is different, and that different types of people like different types of people. Eventually you figure out what kind of person you are and what kind of people you get along with best.
And lo and behold, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever successfully done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out there and got a lot of experience.
Would You Like To Meet Gals?
You know, guys ask me about "meeting women " and "how to meet women " and other such topics all the time .
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